If you’re looking to romance someone in Persona 5: The Phantom X, you’ll need to put in some serious effort to boost your Social Stats like Knowledge, Kindness, and Proficiency. Most characters you can build Synergy Ranks with don’t end up as Soulmates, but a few do.

This guide breaks down all the romanceable characters in Persona 5: The Phantom X, what you need to do to romance them, the special rewards you get for hitting Soulmate status, the best gifts to give them, and where to hang out with them.

All Romance Options In Persona 5: The Phantom X

The game lets you romance three characters: Motoha Arai, Tomoko Noge, and Yaoling Li. Motoha is the first Persona user you meet after Lufel, but you can’t romance her until later. Same deal with Tomoko. Yaoling Li, though, is available early, and her Synergy Rank rewards are solid, making her a great pick for players focused on getting the most out of gameplay.

How To Romance Motoha Arai

Motoha Arai Synergy Rank Rewards

To romance Motoha Arai, finish the first Episode of the story and Kiuchi Palace, then complete the Side-Mission “The Day The Pearl Flies!”. This unlocks the Batting Cages and starts your Synergy Bond with Motoha. You’ll need to hit Synergy Rank 15 to make her your Soulmate, which means getting your Proficiency to at least 15.

Here’s what you get when Motoha becomes your Soulmate:

  • Rank 15: Soulmate Motoha Avatar
  • Rank 18: Work Out Emote
  • Rank 20: Strawberry Cream Frame

To boost your Synergy with Motoha faster, give her sports-related gifts. Here’s a list of the best ones:

  • Heart Ring - Jewelry Underground Market Store, needs 10 Charm, costs 88K - Boosts Synergy by 250 (125+125 for first-time gift).
  • Alloy Baseball Bat - Supermarket in Underground Market Shibuya, needs 13 Proficiency, costs 11K - Boosts Synergy by 52 (26+26 for first-time gift).
  • GOAT Uniform - Supermarket in Underground Market Shibuya, needs 10 Proficiency, costs 8600 - Boosts Synergy by 44 (22+22 for first-time gift).
  • Baseball Gloves - Supermarket in Underground Market Shibuya, needs 5 Proficiency, costs 6900, or get at Batting Cages for 1000 Coins - Boosts Synergy by 34 (17+17 for first-time gift).
  • Preserved Flower - Craft at Workbench - Boosts Synergy by 26 (13+13 for first-time gift).
  • Cat Hairpin - Accessory Shop in Underground Market Shibuya, costs 6900 - Boosts Synergy by 20 (10+10 for first-time gift).
  • Sports Towel - Supermarket in Underground Market Shibuya, costs 3000, or get at Batting Cages for 500 Coins - Boosts Synergy by 16 (8+8 for first-time gift).
  • Protective Sports Gear - Convenience Store in Central Street, costs 2800, or get at Soccer Club Bulletin Store for 500 Coins - Boosts Synergy by 14 (7+7 for first-time gift).
  • Sumo Wrestler Stickers - Discount Store on Central Street, costs 1600 - Boosts Synergy by 8 (4+4 for first-time gift).
  • Gourmet Food Tour Guide - Convenience Store on Central Street, costs 700 - Boosts Synergy by 8 (4+4 for first-time gift).

How To Romance Yaoling Li

Yaoling Li Synergy Rank Rewards

To romance Yaoling Li, complete the first part of Episode 1 up to the first Intermission, then finish the “Foreign Exchange” Side-Mission to meet her and unlock her Synergy Bond. Yaoling’s a big foodie and unlocks useful crafting recipes for the Workbench and Cooking table. You’ll need high Knowledge to unlock all her meetings and boost Synergy Ranks.

Here’s what you get when Yaoling becomes your Soulmate:

  • Rank 15: Yaoling Soulmate Avatar
  • Rank 16: Overwhelmed Emote
  • Rank 20: Duck Hot Pot Frame

To raise Yaoling’s Synergy Rank faster, give her gifts tied to Tourism, Technology, or Japanese culture. Here’s the best gift lineup:

  • Digital Camera - Supermarket in Underground Market Shibuya, costs 39,800 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 128 (64+64 for first-time gift).
  • Paranormal VHS - Discount Store in Central Street Shibuya, needs 10 Guts, costs 32K - Boosts Synergy by 110 (55+55 for first-time gift).
  • Electric Tooth Brush - Convenience Store in Central Street Shibuya, costs 29,800 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 104 (52+52 for first-time gift).
  • Puzzle Rings - Convenience Store in Shinjuku Red-Light District, costs 4700 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 24 (12+12 for first-time gift).
  • Japanese Sweets Sets - Supermarket in Zoshigaya (Omotesando), costs 3800 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 20 (10+10 for first-time gift).
  • Jasmine Tea - Craft at Workbench with Jasmine Leaves and Simple Envelope - Boosts Synergy by 18 (9+9 for first-time gift).
  • Black-Framed Glasses - Discount Store in Central Street Shibuya, costs 3560 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 18 (9+9 for first-time gift).
  • Idol Photo Set - Convenience Store in Central Street Shibuya, costs 3200 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 16 (8+8 for first-time gift).
  • Mixed Nuts - Supermarket in Zoshigaya (Omotesando), costs 2800 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 14 (7+7 for first-time gift).
  • Kendama - Japanese Souvenir Store in Underground Mall Shibuya, costs 2400 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 12 (6+6 for first-time gift).

Yaoling likes to meet in the Evening, so check City Life for activities with her face or Phone Messages for her invites. Gifts lose their punch after the first use, so mix it up and start with cheaper ones to save cash while getting the first-time boost.

How To Romance Tomoko Noge

All Tomoko Noge Synergy Rewards

Tomoko Noge is the last romance option in Persona 5: The Phantom X. Unlock her Synergy Bond by completing the “Part-Time Dreamer” Sub-Mission. She’s into quiet spots, sweets, and part-time jobs, so her Synergy Rank rewards boost Part-Time Jobs City Life activities. You’ll need high Kindness to unlock all her Synergy Ranks, so work on that stat before focusing on her bond.

Here’s what you get when Tomoko becomes your Soulmate:

  • Rank 15: Soulmate Tomoko Avatar
  • Rank 18: Whisper Emote
  • Rank 20: To You, With Love Frame

To boost Synergy with Tomoko, give her “cute” or “trendy” gifts, as her Bio suggests. Here’s the full list of her favorite gifts:

  • Heart Ring - Jewelry Underground Market Store, needs 10 Charm, costs 88K - Boosts Synergy by 250 (125+125 for first-time gift).
  • Uji Matcha Flan Set - Supermarket in Underground Market Shibuya, needs Kindness Level 13, costs 12,000 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 56 (28+28 for first-time gift).
  • Shichi-Kun Doll - Convenience Store Central Street Shibuya, costs 7800 Yen, or get from Shichi-Kun’s Quiz - Boosts Synergy by 40 (20+20 for first-time gift).
  • Super Loud Alarm Clock - Discount Store on Central Street, costs 7000 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 36 (18+18 for first-time gift).
  • Choco Stick Value Pack - Supermarket in Zoshigaya (Omotesando), costs 4890 Yen, or get from Cinema Gift Pack in Shibuya - Boosts Synergy by 24 (12+12 for first-time gift).
  • Cat Hairpin - Accessory Shop in Underground Market Shibuya, costs 6900 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 20 (10+10 for first-time gift).
  • Sunflower Seeds - Craft at Workbench with Sunflower and Simple Envelope - Boosts Synergy by 18 (9+9 for first-time gift).
  • Strawberry Bento Box - Convenience Store in Shinjuku Red-Light District, costs 3200 Yen - Boosts Synergy by 16 (8+8 for first-time gift).
  • Heart-shaped Hand Mirror - Jewelry Shop in Shinjuku Red-Light District, costs 1200 Yen, or get from Event Gift Boxes - Boosts Synergy by 6 (3+3 for first-time gift).
  • Part-time Job Magazine - Supermarket in Yogen-jaya, costs 800 Yen, or get from Shichi-Kun Quiz City Life rewards - Boosts Synergy by 4 (2+2 for first-time gift).

You’ll usually run into Tomoko during Afterschool hours, and her outings often involve helping with part-time jobs. She’s a solid choice for players looking to earn cash fast, thanks to her Part-Time Job City Life boosts.