For men, is the beauty or talent of a woman everything? Would they pursue a woman just because she is both beautiful and talented? What is the relationship between beauty and love?
The love affair is complex. Many outstanding people are singles or struggling in love. Meanwhile, normal people are enjoying their happy loves. So, why do many outstanding girls have no boyfriend or pursuer? A man gave an explanation and 21 thousand people liked it.
Why Men Don’t Pursue Women Due To Beauty?
His explanation was posted on Weibo and 21 thousand users like it. Here’s what he wrote:
‘This lunch, in finding a restaurant for lunch after shopping time, I look at a restaurant across the road. It’s a nice restaurant. It looks luxurious with glass walls so that you can look through it. The servants with well-tied collars stand at the counter gravely. But there is no customer inside. No one looks at it at least once, except me.
However, the small food stall in the alley nearby is so crowded with customers lining up to buy hamburgers. People wait for their turn eagerly and anxiously. Do you know why? Is it simply because the hamburgers in that food stall are delicious?
From this story, a girl who has no boyfriend or pursuer doesn’t mean she is not good. During my school days, the most-pursued girls in my classes are normal girls, not hot girls or excellent students. Why did those boys keep pursuing those girls despite the high competition? Why did they not pursue beautiful and excellent girls instead?
Why?'...
Here's The Answer
'...Simply, it’s because those boys really like her. Love can only be built by long-time contact. We shouldn’t pursue a girl just because she looks beautiful or she studies so well. Don’t tell me that you fall in love with a girl you have never seen and talked with before.
Without close contact, you cannot understand her, don’t know why you like her. You even do not know anything about her.
Besides, not all outstanding girls have no pursuers. But if someone has no one pursuing, I’m sure she has trouble in communication. There are too many things to prevent them from making friends with others or they are too cautious in making friends with someone new. Those women won’t stand in a crowd and chat, join any FA party, or something like that.
They live as married women and are scared of rumors around them. Moreover, they even stay away from men around her due to something called the gender gap.
You tell me she’s good. But I will never know how good she is unless I can communicate with her. I cannot say she is good because she looks stunning or she studies well, right? So, girls, why don’t you stay more open and let boys understand you and chase after you?’
The story of this man shows us that emotion is the key element in the love affair. Men seldom pursue a girl just because of her beauty or talent. Sometimes, a well-behaved and open-hearted girl is more attractive than a good-looking but standoffish girl.